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Understanding your Cognitive Distortions

Table of contents
  1. Feelings aren’t facts
  2. Common Cognitive Distortions
  3. References

As mental health issues are starting to be discussed more openly, it can be challenging to find good care that you believe in and that works for you. I personally found the book, “Feeling Good: A new mood therapy” by David Burns1, expounding the principles of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) to be the most compelling.

Feelings aren’t facts

The main concept behind Cognitive Behavioural Therapy is that “Feelings aren’t facts”

The world is just a system that generates a series of positive, negative and neutral events randomly. It is a neurological fact that we (our brains) first process these events, i.e. interpret, understand and perceive, before anything else 2-7. Our interpretations lead to (1) thoughts and (2) physical responses which we then feel and which leads to our moods and emotions. Our moods and emotions (and behaviours) are just reactions to our thoughts and physical sensations (Fig 1) that then regulate our behaviour.

If our understanding of what is happening is accurate, our generated emotions will be normal. But if our perception is twisted or distorted in some way, then our emotional response will be abnormal.

The World as a RadioFigure 1: The truth of it all

Being an electrical engineer, I love this analogy: think of the world as a radio station that’s broadcasting music. You are the radio and want to produce good sound, not static. Sometimes, the signal from the station may be distorted because of bad weather. But more often than not, the static is just a result of improper tuning. And once you tune the radio, almost miraculously the harsh and grating sound turns into a beautiful melody.

Our minds are also like the radio. Some rigorous mental tuning can make our depression better and we can feel good 1. This mental tuning involves breaking the vicious cycle of thoughts & sensations generating moods & feelings which in turn reinforce the thoughts & sensations causing spiraling emotions.

Meditation 8 (not discussed here) aims to break this loop by teaching you to observe the physical sensations associated with each of your emotions. When you can recognize those sensations in your body through practice, you train yourself not to react to them and succumb to the associated emotion, but instead remain equanimous. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) 1,5, on the other hand, focuses on cutting the chain by learning to identify the thoughts that generate the bad feelings. By identifying the distorted, causal thoughts and converting them to reality, we can regulate our unhealthy beahviour.

Common Cognitive Distortions

Below is a list of common cognitive distortions that we unknowingly submit ourselves to everyday. The first step in CBT is to be aware of them and identify them in practice.

Note: You can click on each image to go to the full sized image.


References



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@article{ nanbhas2020cogdist,
  title   = "Understanding your Cognitive Distortions",
  author  = "Bhaskhar, Nandita",
  journal = "Blog: Roots of my Equation (web.stanford.edu/~nanbhas/blog/)",
  year    = "2020",
  url     = "https://web.stanford.edu/~nanbhas/blog/understanding-cognitive-distortions/"
}