We were told at 12 weeks that our baby had problems, and that we should abort. We decided to let God decide. Next we were told to expext a still-birth at 28 weeks. In the end, we induced at 40 weeks, to 1 3.2somthing little boy, who we named James. He turnd 8 months last Friday, and is our little angel. He knows who he wants (mostly Mom), who he doesn't want anyone besides Mom... Dad if he has to), and what he likes and doesn't like (he ised to hate bathing, now it's sort of okay, sometimes! He hates being away from home, from his comfortable place, and he detests noise, like big groups of people talking, and loud music. He is currently suffering from recurring middle-ear infections, due to not having a hard, or soft pallet, so no drainage via his eustachian tube, so we are having grommets inserted tomorrow. As much as we hope this will improve his quality of life to some degree. we never lose sight of the fact that "he is only on loan for a while, God is going to want him back at some stage". He is a blessing, and we love him to bits. Never doubt your faith, always trust in the Lord. He will never give you something which you cannot handle. Just believe. And love with all your heart - life is too short to do anything other.