ミクシィにミクスする
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I like aligning with my favourites. I only buy Macs, rarely purchase a non-Nintendo video game, and only use Facebook. Or rather, only used Facebook. After exploring some alternatives, I might have found a new web-hangout: Mixi (ミクシィ) the Japanese-specific social network.
Is Mixi as active and linked as Facebook? Probably not. But it really is a breath of fresh air.
Being on Facebook can be stressful. With Applications, News Feed, Facebook Chat, Messages, Photos, and the Wall, Facebook usage is a constant splurge of friends, information, and media. And when a small pocket of peace is found, someone will accost you with a Poke. As fun as Facebooking can be, the profile has become a webpage, the default a Photoshop gallery, and status updates a form of blogging. It's easy to make a new self. It's easy to get lost in the mix.
Contradictory to its name, Mixi is a social networking world where people don't get lost in the mix.
Why?
Focus. The bulk of content on Mixi is based on who the user is, not who the user says s/he is. While Mixi provides similar functionality as Facebook, Mixi's main approach is to act as a web diary. Everything else is extra. Users on Mixi go around, learning about people's day to day lives. Facebook's equivalent, Notes, tends to be a scream for attention, or an expression of a strong point of view. Hence, the Facebook reader learns about the author's preferences, but not about the author him/herself. The Mixi user gets to decide what a person is like. The Facebook user is told.
But Mixi isn't just about writing diary entries. Mixi is designed for strengthening friendships. Most users of Mixi have Mixi friends that they are already good friends with outside of the internet realm. There is no longer a competition for attention. In fact, most Mixi profile pictures don't even contain pictures of the user themselves. Rather the profile picture is a photo of a rabbit the user saw the previous morning, a favourite manga character, or what the user ate for breakfast. Being on Mixi, I feel at home. I get to be genuine.
Facebook is great. But everyone seems to be dressed up for a night out. With Mixi, I get to put on pajamas and just talk to friends about my love for small animals or my secret obsession with romantic comedies.
No pressure.








































































For me, being part of the Jewish community means upholding ancient traditions that have been passed down through time. Here is a picture of my sister and I lighting the candles at Hanukkah, while reciting the Hebrew prayer that accompanies the ceremony. We, like most members of the Jewish community, perform this ceremony every year in order to remember our ancestors and uphold the traditions that are intrinsic to our culture.
The religion is old and beautiful (and sometimes ugly) just like many other religions in that world. Being Jewish means more than being a practitioner of that religion. It means being part of a community of people who have shared the same experiences with you. All across the country children have the same kinds of experiences growing up in Jewish families, and this brings them together. Even more than that, just knowing you are the child of jews can create a community. The boundaries are not clearly defined, nor perhaps is what everyone feels they share.
The photo below is of my family at my brother’s bar mitzvah. The exciting part of this photo is how all over the world people have photos like this – of them and their family at a Bar or Bat Mitzvah.
While I am not the most religious person, nor do I believe or understand all that I am saying when I recite ancient Jewish prayers, I feel comfortable in the Jewish community because the traditions connect me to the other members of the community. I feel at home because I share certain aspects of my identity with the rest of the community. My Bar Mitzvah meant little to me at the time, but it always has and always will connect me to a large Jewish community based around beliefs, prayers, traditions, and most importantly food.
Being a part of the American Jewish community can mean acting for positive social change and social justice with other Jewish and non-Jewish people. This is because a central Jewish value is that of “Tikkun Olam”, or repairing the world. The idea of “Tikkun Olam” moves Jews to work for justice on issues such as poverty, hunger, health, the environment, and human rights. This picture shows a friend and I outside of a garden that we built with local students at an elementary school in Caribbean Costa Rica, in order to enrich their learning experience. It was during a Jewish service-learning trip, in which we studied social and environmental issues in Costa Rica.
This blog entry was created by Jacob Boehm, Katie Dektar, Zev Karlin-Neumann, Rachel Wolfson, and Lucy Litvak