By Jeanne W. Lepper
The world is so full of a number of things, I'm sure we should all be as happy as kings.
--Robert Louis Stevenson
"What a beautiful child!" the parents exclaim over their new baby. Thus begins a life-long relationship of unconditional love and support that is essential for the child to thrive and develop. This nurturing is the foundation for the sense of security and self-esteem that directly affects a child¹s ability to achieve success later, to learn, as Robert Louis Stevenson would put it, about "a number of things."
Here at Bing Nursery School, of course, children¹s learning is the primary focus of parents and teachers. Consciously or not, we are all guided by certain principles of children¹s development.
Children Are Good Observers
Children learn from actively investigating the world around them. Coming upon a construction site, for instance, a four-year-old will be curious about the activity. The adult with the child should take the time to stop, really look at what¹s going on, and direct the child¹s attention to the details. "Let¹s watch and see what happens while that dump truck unloads dirt. See how big the wheels are?"
Children Respond Well to Open-Ended Questions
Open-ended questions encourage children to think and reflect. "What made the shovel move like that?" "What do you think the driver is going to do now?" "Did you hear the motor make a noise? I wonder what will happen next." Giving children time to come up with their own answers, even misconceptions, starts them on the road to constructing explanations and building theories.
Children Are Researchers
Assisted by adults, children have numerous ways to explore their interests. A child intrigued by construction vehicles can look in books at home or at the library. Sand box toys such as shovels, containers, and vehicles can give the child a chance to replay experiences and act out observed roles in order to construct his or her own knowledge. Revisiting a construction site will help the child track the progress of the work, gain more information, and clarify misconceptions. With a sketchpad and pencil, the child can draw what he or she sees. The adult in tow can jot down the child¹s statements to help further the experience at the next opportunity.
Children Benefit from Positive Models
In a natural, almost unconscious, process, children follow the examples set by others, modeling both behavior and the accompanying emotional tone. When children see their parents reading regularly, they want to read and be read to. When they see disrespectful or violent behavior, live or on television, they are just as likely to imitate it.
Positive Suggestions Guide Children
Responding to children positively helps them interact effectively with others. Often an adult¹s first response to a child¹s undesirable behavior is negative, controlling, emphasizing what the child cannot do: "Don¹t throw this ball here." But usually a more effective approach suggests what the child can do: "That¹s a good place to throw the ball."
Children Learn Through Play
Play is the child¹s work, perhaps the child¹s most important way of learning. This learning process occurs even when it may not be obvious‹when children actively explore their environment and act on their inborn curiosity. Adults can contribute to this natural process by encouraging children¹s interests and efforts, talking to them about what they are experiencing, and helping them elaborate and extend their play.
Children Learn from Their Peers
When children play with siblings and friends, they learn from each other. As questions, challenges, and conflicts arise, they learn how to solve problems. For example, three-year-old Sarah is in the block area trying to balance a structure and bridge the gap to "put a roof on my house." Her more experienced four-year-old playmate Lakisha suggests, "Let¹s try the longer block‹it looks like it might fit better." This mixed-age play in particular allows children to learn in two ways, both by modeling the behavior of older children and by "teaching" younger children.
Children Learn With Support
It doesn¹t work just to tell children "You must share." At best, such orders are effective only temporarily while adults are present. However, when adults guide children through the process of taking turns or waiting for a turn, the children can internalize those strategies and use them the next time. For instance, a two-year-old wants a turn pushing a wagon, but both wagons are in use. A teacher says so that all can hear, "Jason is really waiting for a turn. He¹ll be ready as soon as you¹re done. Let¹s see what you can do, Jason, until they¹re finished. You can help put some more leaves in the wagon. Here¹s a rake to get another pile ready." This approach helps the child have a role and a way to enter the play. Such emotionally supportive language also helps children view adults as their advocates. It helps them solve problems rather than turning the situation into an adversarial struggle. Often, when asked first how they could solve a problem, children think of the best solution.
Children Learn by Using Basic Materials
Young children learn by doing. Helping with cooking, chores, and other real work is of tremendous interest and value to them. This hands-on learning is also encouraged with open-ended materials such as the following:
The more hands-on experiences children have, the more curious and capable they become and, best of all, the more joy they feel at learning "a number of things."